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Gambling is the act of risking
money, property, or something of value on an activity with an
uncertain outcome. Problem gambling is defined as any gambling
behaviour that negatively affects family, personal or vocational
pursuits.
People gamble at various levels of involvement. Casual social
gamblers, for example, gamble occasionally and experience no
negative effects. Serious social gamblers may not experience any
negative effects either; but for them, gambling is their major
form of recreation. Harmfully involved gamblers gamble to such
an extent that the gambling has a harmful effect on some area of
their lives. The effect can be occasional or ongoing.
Today's problem gambler may be a teen, a senior, male or female,
of any socioeconomic status or any racial/ethnic/religious
group.
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spending more and more time on gambling - preoccupation*
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promises to cut back or stop without outside help
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growing debt (bill collectors making contact; gambler may
make extra efforts to always pick up the mail)
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lies (about finances and whereabouts)
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frequent mood swings
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boasting about wins, minimizing losses
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chasing - attempts to win back money lost by betting more
money
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increase in amount of money gambled - tolerance*
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physical deterioration and self-neglect (hygiene,
appearance)
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loss of enjoyment of leisure activities
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loss of efficiency and productivity
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isolation and anti-social behaviour
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confused or distorted thinking*
* These
signs, along with an aroused euphoric state (high or rush) are
similar to alcohol/other drug addiction.
The most common symptoms are:
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cravings - urge to gamble
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restlessness and irritability
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insomnia
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headaches
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upset stomach, diarrhea
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loss of appetite
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physical weakness
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heart racing, palpitations
May
include:
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counselling - individual and family
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group sessions/ programs
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self-help (Gamblers Anonymous, GA and GamAnon for family &
friends)
If you answer "yes" to several
of the following questions, you may want to consult someone
about a gambling problem.
- Do you ever feel remorse
after gambling?
- Have you noticed a decrease
in your grades at school or in your efficiency at work?
- Do you have a fantasy that
you are going to be rich one day from gambling?
- Has your attitude toward
your family changed?
- Does gambling cause you to
lose time from school and/or work?
- Do you often gamble until
you last dollar is gone?
- Have you withdrawn from
friends and outside activities?
- Have you ever borrowed so
that you can continue gambling?
- After losing, do you feel
you must return as soon as possible to win back you losses?
- After a win do you have a
strong urge to return to win more?
- Are you reluctant to use
"gambling money" for normal expenditures?
- Do you ever gamble longer
than you had planned?
- Have you ever sold anything
to finance your gambling?
- Do you ever gamble to
escape worry or trouble?
- Does gambling cause you to
have trouble sleeping?
- Do arguments,
disappointments or frustrations create within you the urge
to gamble?
- Does anyone in your family
have a substance abuse problem?
- Do you have an urge to
celebrate good fortune by a few hours of gambling?
- Do you believe that you
have superior knowledge when making choices for gambling?
- Have you ever considered
self-destruction as a result of gambling?
Adapted from
Twenty Questions - Gamblers Anonymous
Are you living with a Problem
Gambler?
If you answer "yes " to several
of these questions, there is possibly a gambling problem in your
home and you may want to consult someone about help for
yourself.
- Do you find yourself
constantly bothered by bill collectors?
- Is the family member often
away from work and family activities because of gambling?
- Do you feel that this
family member cannot be trusted with money?
- Does the family member
faithfully promise that s/he will stop gambling: beg, plead
for another chance yet gamble again and again?
- Does this family member
ever gamble longer than s/he intended to, until the last
dollar is gone?
- Does this family member
immediately return to gambling to try to recover losses or
to win more?
- Does this family member
gamble to get money to solve financial difficulties or have
unrealistic expectations that gambling will bring the family
material comfort and wealth?
- Does this family member
borrow money to gamble with or to pay gambling debts?
- Has this family member's
reputation ever suffered due to gambling, even to the extent
of committing illegal acts to finance gambling?
- Have you come to the point
of hiding money needed for living expenses, knowing that you
and the rest of the family may go without food and clothing
if you do not?
- Do you go through/search
this family member's belongings when the opportunity
presents itself, or otherwise check his/her activities?
- Does the family member hide
his/her money?
- Have you noticed a
personality change in the family member as his or her
gambling progresses?
- Does the family member
consistently lie to cover up or deny his or her gambling
activities?
- Does this family member use
your guilt as a method of shifting responsibilities for his
or her gambling onto you?
- Do you attempt to
anticipate this family member's moods or try to conceal
his/her life?
- Does this family member
ever suffer from remorse or depression due to gambling
sometimes to the point of self-destruction?
- Has the gambling ever
brought you to the point of threatening to break up the
family unit?
- Do you feel that your life
together is a nightmare?
Adapted from
GamAnon Questions
Drug Dependency Services, Central
Region, 1999
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